[DLOTTE]

Hello peeps, have a question "does your spouse really understand MMJ"
i'm not sure mine does and i'm drifting further apart. been with her 22 yrs, have three great kidds ,and now mmj is an issue ??? smart remarks ,grouchy looks, unneeded comments are coming and i ????? trying to understand why ???
any ideas, i'll be thinking about this all day.

[stryfe_2009]

sit down and talk about it... all you can do

[~Chronic420~]

Mine understands and partakes with me but my mom pulls that same song and dance on my dad who is 59 and a cancer patient. As if she knows what helps him. It seems some women get worse as they get older, so I would say you might need a change. I let mine know and told my mom, if you are gonna be rude and unsupportive then keep it to yourself or prove to me why you think your rudeness helps my pains or my dads for that matter. Most of the time they keep there mouth quiet because they don't want to take the time to read the facts, it's too much easier to complain. If women don't complain, they will explode since they all claim they don't fart. My $0.02 :)

[*~KultuRe~*]

I am lucky enough to have someone who does understand medicinal cannabis and the relief it brings me. I have been forever grateful that my soul mate does understand, because I have lost many close, life-long friends who don't understand. It's always been friends and others who don't understand it, who claim that it's a joke and a reason to hide behind in order for me to get high. It's really quite a shame, and I am sorry for anyone who's partner doesn't understand.

I think the only thing a person can do is to sit down and talk about it with their partner, and be completely upfront. Be completely honest about how medical cannabis helps you and how you benefit from it - but also be honest with yourself, because sometimes the spouses/friends may have a real legit concern that you are over-medicating. If they truly can't understand you having a toke now and then to relieve stress or any other kind of illness, that's a real shame.

[Pico+Barrington Collective]

I have to say talking about it is the best and help her understand the medical benefits it has and how it helps your aliments, but without having to take prescription pills.

[Fisherman Bob]

It's the one thing "we agree to disagree on", and it works for us.Sometimes you have to compromise,sounds like life...

Fisherman Bob

[DLOTTE]

Originally Posted by stryfe_2009

sit down and talk about it... all you can do

i'm trying so hard to do that,we're trying very hard at it ,
at a crossroads i didn't expect..it's hard to communicate the feelings we both feel...we've had counselor's before and we both do not have regrets for our lives together . I feel like i'm going down a road that is going to shake up our lives . not a bad thing, just a hard one to come to grips with and to move forward from..going to need a lot of soul searching for sure, because bottom line is I will not askher to accept anything that is going to change her. And me i cannot and refuse to give up my meds. i don't do drugs,12 years dec 17.....
thanks peeps...
feel better just putting outthere...
no matter what we will be fine and always friends

[DLOTTE]

Originally Posted by ~Chronic420~

Mine understands and partakes with me but my mom pulls that same song and dance on my dad who is 59 and a cancer patient. As if she knows what helps him. It seems some women get worse as they get older, so I would say you might need a change. I let mine know and told my mom, if you are gonna be rude and unsupportive then keep it to yourself or prove to me why you think your rudeness helps my pains or my dads for that matter. Most of the time they keep there mouth quiet because they don't want to take the time to read the facts, it's too much easier to complain. If women don't complain, they will explode since they all claim they don't fart. My $0.02 :)

[DLOTTE]

Originally Posted by *~KultuRe~*

I am lucky enough to have someone who does understand medicinal cannabis and the relief it brings me. I have been forever grateful that my soul mate does understand, because I have lost many close, life-long friends who don't understand. It's always been friends and others who don't understand it, who claim that it's a joke and a reason to hide behind in order for me to get high. It's really quite a shame, and I am sorry for anyone who's partner doesn't understand.

I think the only thing a person can do is to sit down and talk about it with their partner, and be completely upfront. Be completely honest about how medical cannabis helps you and how you benefit from it - but also be honest with yourself, because sometimes the spouses/friends may have a real legit concern that you are over-medicating. If they truly can't understand you having a toke now and then to relieve stress or any other kind of illness, that's a real shame.

than you so much,she does and did understand at one time, but she really doesnt notice her remarks... then when i explain them, i'm making fun of her she says.. not given in yet, but thank you for your thoughts.

[DLOTTE]

Originally Posted by Fisherman Bob

It's the one thing "we agree to disagree on", and it works for us.Sometimes you have to compromise,sounds like life...

Fisherman Bob

[DLOTTE]

Originally Posted by Pico+Barrington Collective

I have to say talking about it is the best and help her understand the medical benefits it has and how it helps your aliments, but without having to take prescription pills.

graasias my brother, spilling about it really releases alot , but all the feedback helps me !!!!!!!!!! thank you WT....
I carry WT.....

[DLOTTE]

enough said about spouses, i learned and talked about it...you can't make them, i know whole heartedly that i can't adjust to old expectations because of new experiences. i loved my ex- and alwasys will. Just can't love her like i want anymore.. i accept it and i can just be happy with that and can be happy with what did together and be friends but i'm moving on. " i must move on !!! IJUst need to be happy and raise my son's without being profiled by my -ex.. so i have no regrets and thank you all. dlotte says.
"i'm in like"...:)"U"